I provide Tantric Healing sessions with Internal Pelvic Release offered as part of the session. Internal Pelvic Release provides an opportunity to release and open blocked energies stored in the stomach, vagina and anus area.

Reasons for seeking Sexual Healing with Internal Pelvic Release
Many, if not most, women in our culture have experienced physical abuse, sexual trauma, rape, and/or molestation as well as mentally and emotionally abusive episodes. Even short of these more extreme experiences, women often are pressured to submit or accommodate sexual gratification of their husband or lover without desiring or fully welcoming the engagement in the moment. All of these circumstances produce contractions and restrictions of a woman’s energy.

The “bad experience” is stored in body-memory tissue located usually in the yoni, stomach and/or anus areas. Blocked or "stuck" energy in these areas has the affect of clamping down the woman’s full enjoyment of sexual engagement and creating “dead” or numb areas of the body. Often this affects sexual desire as well.

Women who experience this disconnection may compensate or ignore the feelings of numbness, pain or anger that exist and “just go-along” with sex and not be fully present to what is happening. This can take its toll on a relationship—slowly eroding the intimacy and freedom of sexual expression.

Internal Pelvic Release (a.k.a. “Yoni Healing”) is an important aspect of sexual healing for women. To experience the full effect of kundalini (sexual energy) rising it is essential that the energetic pathways of the body be prepared, clear and open. When this is the case, women feel empowered and free in their sexual expression —the embodiment of Shakti (Divine Feminine) energy.

The following description is for information purposes only and does not take the place of receiving in-person instruction. I recommend receiving personal instruction and guidance by an experienced practitioner. Due to the deep emotional impact that can result a provider would want to be proficient before performing this procedure with a client or inexperienced receiver. Couples who want to attempt this together understand the potential for emotionally expelling long contracted energy that may be overwhelming. Instead, I suggest including it in a session with an experienced Daka or Dakini.

Procedure
Internal Pelvic Release is a process of canvassing the interior of the yoni (vagina) for locations that have stiffness, tension or tightness in the tissue and bringing presence and awareness with slight pressure to the location until it releases. Deep breathing and sending love and acceptance to the location of the "energy knot" allows it to open and release the emotional charge it has been carrying.

To create a holistic healing opportunity there first needs to be a sense of “space” around the issues embedded like a memory in the body. To begin with, some time is given to discussing the concerns and felt awareness of past abuse, trauma and emotional wounds. With a detached, "witness" perspective and holding an intention of releasing and opening—an opportunity for healing occurs.

A full-body sensual massage is given to lower the physical armoring present represented by stress, tension, tightness, stiffness, soreness, and pain. In order to receive yoni penetration and release energy knots present there, it is essential to deeply relax the body.

The exterior of the yoni is also massaged to relax mucles in the area and engorge yoni tissues, opening and relaxing the yoni. The touch I use is often a new experience for women to receive. While being very pleasurable and igniting erotic energy, the touch doesn't carry an intention of taking one to orgasm. What results is a "wallowing" in erotic energy without destination creating a feeling of deeply receiving healthful touch that is pleasurable at a higher level.

Tantric energy techniques are used to ignite energy pathways of the body in preparation for the energy releases that follow and to facilitate an erotic energy charge that assists in unraveling energy knots and releasing them. By preparing the body in this manner Internal Pelvic Release is received comfortably and is most effective.

Its very important to ask permission before engaging the yoni. The woman receiving this procedure must feel completely at-choice, with nothing "being taken" from her nor having to submit to something she is not desiring or ready for. I also ask for and receive her permission to enter her sacred garden and then wait for the yoni to also say "yes” by its feel -open, receptive, welcoming, the yoni invites me in by pulsing and contracting onto my finger.

I enter the yoni with one finger and slowly, gently, canvas the vaginal walls for areas of tightness, tenderness, discomfort, soreness, or pain. When such areas are encountered, a gentle but firm pressure is applied without “rubbing” or creating friction to that area -merely meeting the contracted spot with firm-but-gentle pressure that meets the contraction without trying to force it to release. The woman receiving is invited to bring awareness to this spot and “breath-into” it sending love and acceptance with the intention of opening and releasing whatever wants to do so.

The pressure is similar to acupressure on a knot in one’s muscle. Often, a masseuse will hold pressure until there is a release in the muscle. When the vaginal wall releases there is a definite feeling of softening and opening that occurs. Often this is accompanied by a vocalized emotional release which may include anger, sobbing tears, and/or physical reactions of shaking and sweating.

I perform a thorough canvassing of the yoni wall, addressing additional “energy knots" providing a clearing of the yoni. It is often necessary to receive more than one session for complete results.

Sacred Spot Massage
Canvassing around the interior of the yoni in a clock-wise rotation, the Sacred Spot (a woman's "G" spot) is engaged last. I also ask permission to engage the Sacred Spot. The Sacred Spot is often a repository of repressed emotion resulting from trauma and abuse. When the yoni has been completely enlivened by sensual massage the Sacred Spot becomes engorged and ready for massage.

Approach the Sacred Spot gently and slowly starting from the edges and gradually shifting pressure to the interior area. Roll the pad of your finger slowly over the edge towards the center area of the Sacred Spot noticing any stiffness, tight areas, or emotional charge-trigger points.

Continue to engage the Sacred Spot, slowly bringing pressure to all quarters. Ride the energy wave that results from the release of repressed emotion and also pleasure.

A Different Touch
The Internal Pelvic Release procedure is different from “pleasuring touch” or even the release associated with invoking female ejaculation. The process is often pleasantly enjoyable while engaging pleasure-sensitive areas of the yoni, the touch however, is not a solicitous one, designed to invoke sexual excitement or orgasm. Rather, the yoni is engaged with loving, accepting, conscious touch.

This loving touch often contacts tender, sensitive, sometimes painful areas of tight, clenched tissue or muscle in the lower abdomen, yoni and anus area. The engagement therewith is gentle, loving-acceptance, healthful touch and gentle pressure, which meets the “tightness” with presence without resistance. This is different from touch designed to invoke orgasm or female ejaculation -it feels loving, accepting,and healing—opening oneself to a more relaxed welcoming of touch rather than the armoring stiffness, “deadness” or numbness currently felt in one’s stomach, yoni, or anal areas.

Benefits
By freeing these areas of the body from contraction it allows for the free-flow of energy through the three lower Chakras (energy centers) in the “body.”

The Root Chakra (located at the end of the tail-bone, externally represented by the perineum) is connected to one’s relationship with one’s community, family, survival, feeling of groundedness and connection to mother earth Gaia. It is through this source all our material-physical manifestations come from.

One’s Second Chakra is associated with the genitals of the body and is connected to our sexual expression, as well as one’s feeling of Shakti (Divine Feminine energy) flow through the body -resulting in a sensuality of being. Because of this, the Second Chakra is also associated with Eros, vital force, inspiration, creative spark, vitality, and vibrancy of life. If you are not feeling these aspects of your essential nature then you have contractions/restrictions in this Chakra.

The Third Chakra is connected to one’s “Power” in life and shows up in one’s ability to manifest one’s dreams or intentions. The Third Chakra is located just below the sternum’s end on the rib cage and is associated with the stomach. If you have a protruding stomach out of proportion with the rest of your body or experience severe tightness, cramping, or bloating of your stomach, you likely have Third Chakra, personal power, issues happening. Clearing this Chakra empowers one’s life with confidence and clear intention and understanding of how you manifest your desires.

By clearing these three Chakras from blockages and restrictions one becomes a being filled with vibrant energy, sensuality, confidence, and tremendous expanded orgasmic ability. One’s energy shoots to new heights and sees fantastic new possibilities entering life every day.

Completion
Completing the procedure involves holding space and staying present without trying to fix anything or stop the emotion from coming out. The Daka can offer support with eye-contact, holding hands, embracing the receiver as desired -or not- by her. Gentle, long strokes to the body of reassurance and acceptance is often welcomed.

I keep one hand present at the yoni (exterior), holding in support of integrating the releasing energy. My other hand strokes the body, bringing the energy up and out through the body, on to whatever energetic disbursement the wisdom of the “body” has in store for it. Sometimes the receiver can become cold at this time, it is good to have a blanket or sheet available to cover up with. Compression squeezes through the covering are often welcomed now, feeling deeply cared for and nurtured and warm.

If after reading this you would like to receive a Tantric Healing session, or want to learn the complete procedure in order to offer this healing practice as a Daka, please contact me.

I also provide sessions with Kali Devi that teach the Internal Pelvic Release procedure: Sunyataji@gmail.com

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